This is to all my gurls out there who get used, cufused, and conflicted by the man they fell for.

So to all you women out there here is my topic for the week why do men have to be so hard to figure out. With them always having their guard up whether it is because they were cheated on, or used, or they cheated and they use women. I have two very good friends who are dealing with the guy they fell for and with one of my friends and for name sake we'll call her Hannah, well Hannah has been friends with this guy for like 9 years, 4 just friends, 2 1/2 friends with benefits, 2 1/2 close to dating only just testing the waters, 1/2 a year dating with out the labels. Well now he's going on about how he wants to be right for her with being the kind of guy she needs. FOR GOD SAKES MAN THE ONLY WAY TO FIND OUT IS TO ASK HER!!!! NOT BREAK UP WITH HER, IGNORE HER, AND PRACTICALLY RUN AWAY WHEN YOU SEE HER!!!! What is up with men like that? Then there is my other close friend which for names sake we will call Sammy. Well Sammy has been with this guy for 4 years and friends with him for 3 years prior to them dating and it has been almost puke worthy perfect. So perfect I practically wanted to puke seeing them all lovy dovy. Then two days ago he up and breaks up with her, no explanation other than he wanted to end it before things got bad. HOW CAN THINGS GO BAD WHEN YOUR IN LOVE LIKE THAT!?!?  I mean seriously, when your with someone like they were, I mean they talked every day. They texted 7 times a day, talked on the phone 2 times a day and were together the other part of the time, inseparable. And they always did they cutsy name thing, and the holding hands with his arm around her waist or neck, and pecked like every 5 minutes, and said I love you like every 10-15 minutes, it was sickening. But, I was so happy for her because she has had bad relationships before it was so nice to see her happy. It was nice to see both my best friends happy, then these guys broke thier hearts for no good reason it makes no sense to break up with someone over worrying your not good enough for the other person, you don't break up over that, you work it out with them. And you don't break up over worrying that it will turn sour when your so happy you worry about the here and now when it's that good. MEN YOU CAN'T LIVE WITH THEM YOU CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT THEM, SCRATCH THAT CAN'T LIVE LOVING THEM MAKES MORE SENSE FOR THIS AND FOR MYSELF SOMETIMES YOU HEAR GIRLS!