What ever happend to finding the one and staying together?

Dear, Readers

Well today is a new day! But, I was just wondering after watching one of my friends favorite movies "The Perfect Man", how does one actually know when you have found "the perfect man", I mean does he even exist. One man perfect for every woman out there and one woman perfect for every man. And if you do find that perfect someone for you how do you keep it soo perfect, I mean everyone makes mistakes no one out there can be all that perfect. Then that got me thinking, what about all these girls out there who are still looking, should we give up on finding that amazing love that will bring out the best in us or should we keep looking hopelessly for the one guy who will make life a little more with while? And as one of those girls I myself am starting to believe all those anti-romantics because even though I am only 18 years old, I found a perfect man for me and he loved me and I loved him soo much it was almost sickening to all of our friends and it was really perfect for years he even was okay with me being with my girlfriend and him, one big happy family, but then his brother got involved in gangs and he was mistaken for his brother and he died in my arms in the ambulence, so that was that for me and my prince charming, and I still had my womanly love I was going to introduce her to my family a year and a half ago, but she got really sick and died from lymphoblatic luekemia. And I thought to myself that if I had found that perfect person was my love life, my relationship status going to be permanently single? I had no clue....Then I found myself falling in love again with a woman that stirred the inner workings of my soul and it made me think even now as I'm writing this blog with my girlfriend at my side, what if we get more than one chance to fall in love and if so then "the perfect man or woman" is completely a lie told to just let little girls dream of prince charming, and if it's wrong why keep looking? But, to all those hopeless romantic's out there I'm still partially on your side of all this I'm just right on the border line of hope and stubborn old maid. I'm just tired of looking for something that never seems to be there looking for me too.......

So to my readers I want your opinion on all this or tell your story and see if it helps someone going throuogh the same thing, we women have to stick together or we'll just get lost in translation, in the language of love.