LOVE?

For many years the time old questions about love have been discussed and have been seemed as a mystery. Well I have to a new theory on that subject to answer all those questions..... I personally have asked the question " What if love doesn't always come to an agreement with destiny and fate and above all what the heart really needs instead of what the heart wants? ". Well to my own question I just finished watching Letters to Juliet Letters to Juliet I loved the movie and it made me think about my past relationships and the one I have ended permanently in my life. I have been searching for that one person who understands me and want to be with me not because I fit some list in their heads to the perfect or ideal girlfriend who could someday be their wife, but someone who wants to be with me like Sophie and Charlie want to be together, for it to be more of a need than anything else. Love of all things is timeless and never ending, it is something you can always find even in the darkest of times, and you can never run out no matter how much it seems like your heart is breaking and you've run out, you can always make more. LOVE THE ETERNAL PASSION, LOVE THE ETERNAL EMOTION, LOVE THE ETERNAL LIFE CHANGING LIVING LIFE DRIVING THING THAT CAN NEVER DIE.....AFTER ALL IT'S ETERNAL!
I only ask of my readers to think about love and how some of you may have found it and kept it, and how even those whom have lost it like myself. I ask to keep living in the light of your love, and if you haven't found a love to last yet, then keep looking. I 'm one of those hopeless romantics that believes to my core that everyone has a true soul mate and a destiny waiting to intertwine with that one person that makes their heart feel on fire and their soul take flight.

Does a good relationship have to have good sex?

I have seen so many relationships go down the drain these days on just the fact that one partner is not satisfying the other.No Ifs, Ands, or Butts And at this I am almost stumped....does a good relationship have to have good sex to stay a "happy couple", or can there be bad sex or "dry spells". Or at least have a real chance to talk it out or work on it. Is there ever a chance in those relationships gone bad to have room for improvement, or do all us girls out there just find good sex as the one thing we pose as the "tip of the iceberg" for our relationships? I found that talking it out, or that in my friends relationships they try new things, or try not to focus on the physical attraction and more on the mental and emotional part of the relationship. Can we live happily in a relationship with moderately good sex and be happy or has good sex become a necessity in all good relationships and even marriages?

sorry for the wait, it seems that's just what we modern girls have to do ALL THE FRIKING TIME!

Well my last few weeks contain this : One of my best friends and now ex-boyfriend decided in his depression that if he couldn't have me in his life that he had nothing left to live for and I being the stupidly hopeful type thought the few days of no phone calls was him getting over me.....WRONG in all senses of the word he killed himself while working at his dad's construction site by turning on the machine and jumping in front of it...I was first in tears that I just lost someone, but then I was just mad and angry that he thought that he had nothing to live for, he has a little brother he still needed to look after because his parents are mental. Then it just came to me that only waiting out time would make the whole eating at go away and the thought that if i hadn't fought with with him he might not have done it. But, it's not my fault or my problem just my burden to bare. Then one of my friends had a miscarriage and was in total pain and it happened on the job I went to help, but all I could do was be there and hope for the best and talk to he33r to try to calm her, but I was useless for anything else. Then one of my oldest friends had a set of twins and she named the one who came out first after me. This week I lost someone dear to me, was there for a good friend as she lost her first child at 3 months, and saw life appear. It's a lot to take in. BUT, MY MAIN TOPIC IS THAT WITH MEN LIKE THE EX I LOST THIS PAST WEEK IS THAT MOST GUYS NOT ALL, BUT MOST KEEP THEIR FEELINGS LOCKED UP AND IT'S LIKE A TICKING BOMB THAT US WOMEN WHO ARE OPEN TO TAKING ABOUT EVERYTHING, MIND YOU NOT LIKE A GOSSIP CIRCLE OR A SHRINK, BUT TO TALK ABOUT OUR RELATIONSHIP. THOSE FEW MEN SEEM TO KEEP US WOMEN WAITING AND WAITING AND WAITING. MY QUESTION THIS TIME IS WHY ARE THEY LIKE THAT, AND WHAT ARE THEY WAITING FOR, BECAUSE PERSONALLY I'M TIRED OF WAITING!!!!!!